TALI & LOZ SPIRITUAL PODCAST

Ep 8. Libra Season with Jev

September 24, 2021 Laura Konst Season 1 Episode 8
TALI & LOZ SPIRITUAL PODCAST
Ep 8. Libra Season with Jev
Show Notes Transcript

I am learning about the energies of the Libra Season from Jev.
What can we look forward to and what do we need to be aware off?
This beautiful and social season can bring a lot of joy or is Mercury Retrograde going to pull some tricks?

Sit back, relax and discover.

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Laura Konst:

Hi and welcome back to the Tali and Loz Podcast. Where we discover Spirituality together. And again, I'd love to welcome back, Jev, who is going to talk about Libra season with us. What can we do to balance out ourselves this month? Hi, Jev. Hi, Laura. How are you doing? I'm very good. Thank you. How are you?

Jev:

I'm good. I'm very much looking forward to this Libra season, maybe because I'm Libra myself, and I'm looking forward to my birthday as well.

Laura Konst:

Hopefully, you can have a bigger party than last year.

Jev:

I'm not sure about the priorities. You know. This is always a great time of, you know, having having Can you boost up energy having a new, new, I don't know, so called soul contracts almost or something new coming into our lives.

Laura Konst:

Right. Okay. So let's get to it. So what can we expect of the healthy expressions of Libra?

Jev:

Yes, so Libra energy is amazing. Of course, how else would I describe. So the start of the season is the 22nd of September, and it will last for a month. So we will probably also feel the shift from the Virgo energies into the Libra energies. Virgo is the earth sign. So it's very practical, very grounded as what can I do? What is my next best step, whereas Libra is ruled by by Venus, and it's the air energy, it's the energy of the air element. And the air is also its, its thinking, communication, it's how we relate to other people. And so the domain of Libra is relationships.

Laura Konst:

Okay?

Jev:

Right. It is how we relate to other people. It is how we build relationships, it is how we are able to listen to another person, it is how we can be equal with another person. It is also how we exercise empathy, how can we actually feel what another person might need?

Laura Konst:

Right? So is it also a bit more social than the Virgo season Focus, focus? self care?

Jev:

Absolutely, yes, the Libra can be a social butterfly, you know, loves, you know, in not not in the center of attention necessarily No, but it's very social. And because it it intuitively knows how to build relationships with grace was charm. The These are the people they are very likable people, you know, they they know how to charm if they want to, but they also very gracious, they have beautiful manners. They know how to use the empathy to support other people want to listen to their needs, to their moods, and so on.

Laura Konst:

Right. So true team players as well.

Jev:

Absolutely, absolutely. So that is great. And that brings also the focus for all of us to focus on the, on our relationships in our lives. Again, not necessarily romantic ones, it's really all relationships, which are one to one, right? What is the quality of those relationships? How do we build them what is important which relationships are energizing us and which are not? Which are good for us and which are not? So these are all the questions which will come up in the season, that's for sure.

Laura Konst:

Right? Okay. So is it also maybe like, sort of social detox time that if you feel like this person should not really be in my energy? It might be a good time to let go certain people is that the right season for this as well?

Jev:

Or not really say it's about detox not not really because it is the season where we review relationships and the the, the way that we review relationships is through going through it, you know, you are in a situation with somebody and this will give you a feedback. This will give you a mirror of whether you feel good with this with this person or not, whether you feel supported, energized or depleted. So it's rather reviewing the relationships okay. And that will also be supported very much by the upcoming Mercury Retrograde. Okay,

Laura Konst:

the record record, retrograde if people say is it that fearful, though or not really again?

Jev:

It depends. It depends. I'm always explaining that this is a blessing in disguise. Okay, why do I say that because obviously mercury rules thinking can be vacation logic, right? And that is something that we in our society are using a lot. Okay, we're trained since childhood that we have to use our logic have to see the data have to use the facts. And so in oftentimes, we find ourselves in quite an imbalance situation because we tend to over train our minds and under train our intuition. Okay. Okay, yes. And so what happens, the universe says, Dears, I understand your life is really hectic, busy and dynamics, but you still need to work on your intuition. And here, I will help you. And this is why we have every year we have three Mercury Retrograde, they last for three weeks. And they help us every Mercury Retrograde help us to use our intuition more our intuitive skills are intuitive abilities, to surrender more to trust more to kind of go with the flow. And of course, for the mind that feels highly uncomfortable. It wants to control things, it wants to plan things. And this is why there is a myth of it's not a myth, it's more like the fear of Oh my God, I will not be able to, to think clearly again, or to accomplish my task with the, you know, with efficiency as I used to, now this is the time to kind of go deeper in oneself. So I see it as a blessing. But of course, we need to be prepared for this season. Because typically, this is where we need to backup our technology. This is where we need to make sure that we're double checking the details. This is where misunderstandings between people can arise and so on.

Laura Konst:

Okay.

Jev:

And interestingly, this year in 2021, all three mercury retrogrades, they are taking place in the air signs. We're going through burst one in February, that was the mercury retrograde in Aquarius. Then we went through the site of the second one. In June, that was the mercury retrograde in Gemini, particularly tough because Gemini is ruled by mercury and Mercury Retrograde. So it was hard to kind of concentrate to start thinking to pull ourselves together, but it was great anyway. And then the next one will start on the 27th of September. Okay, and that will be in the sign of Libra. Okay. And so now as we're speaking the Libra is about relationships. So in a nutshell, what this retrograde is about is we will be reassessing, reviewing and reprioritizing relationships in our lives. Okay,

Laura Konst:

yes. Right.

Jev:

How do we do relationships? Do we do them? Right? are we listening to people? are we feeling that we're being heard? How do we communicate and relationships? So all these questions will come up to the surface for our review? Right?

Laura Konst:

Right. Okay. Yes. So it's it's, yeah, just motor socials, as well. And yeah, I get it. Yeah, that's exciting. I think especially after the Virgo season be more about me, me, me, me and self care self in a good way. It's good. Now to go back to the social.

Jev:

Yeah, well, I want to be COVID got me, me, me, because we're Who is this service to others? So there's always I want to help others. I want to give too much. Yeah. So it's very conscious choice to actually come back to oneself or to oneself first, correct. But Libra is really, really putting the spotlight on relationships. Because Libra is looking for harmony, it looks for balance. It doesn't like any arguments. It doesn't like uncomfortable conversations. It doesn't like to rock the boat. It can also find oneself every now and then in the roles of a peacemaker or a mediator or negotiator because they know how to do it very diplomatically, with a win win kind of flair.

Laura Konst:

rights. Wow. Okay. And so more of what other kind of energies can we expect as well? Like, is it maybe also to do with our cells like the way we look how beauty and that kind of thing, are we going to focus on that the outer us as well? Yes,

Jev:

yes, yes, you just picked it up, because as I mentioned, Libra is ruled by Venus. So of course, the Venus loves beauty, it loves aesthetics, and Libra energies are bringing this this this static side which can be expressed in willing to buy something for ourselves, too. I don't know, bring you a wardrobe or whatever you do, or do some beauty treatments or maybe buy something beautiful, a beautiful painting for the wall. We're listening to beautiful music. So we're maybe even going into, you know, arts buying arts books, or if if it's open to go to a museum or anything of that kind. Yeah.

Laura Konst:

Okay. I'm very excited about that as well, I think. Yeah, I sort of paid less attention in the last few weeks. So I think that was the perfect time to focus on that for myself as well a little bit. And what are the unhealthy expressions in our Libra season? What do we have to take care of,

Jev:

we need to make sure that we pay attention to some of the shadow sides of and the shadow sides are codependency and people pleasing, okay? Because that is something I think many of us can be called into. Because when we know how to listen to other people, when we have this empathy of other people needs, we may shop our own needs down and all we play to kind of please other people and to maintain the peace and harmony, okay. And that of course, doesn't you know, it cannot be supported for a very long time because it will explode at some point anyway, because you cannot just shut down your own needs or cannot shut down your own energy. So that will be something that we need to pay attention to as well as any imbalances in relationships.

Laura Konst:

Okay. Okay. Yes, because you're reviewing them and then it might drag them down there right

Jev:

now, record and record so look and catch any anything that stands out as an imbalance? Are you giving too much? are you receiving too much? Are you listening too much or you're not listening? So any of those things will come to the surface for review? Where do you stand? Are you giving too much emotional support and you are not receiving feedback? Are you supporting someone financially financially for a very long time and you are not getting back. So it really is about balance, it is about making changes and improvements in relationships, so that we don't lose ourselves in other people. Okay.

Laura Konst:

So that makes a lot of sense with the the crystal says that we made together like on your advice, I picked the crystals, you see a lot of others Rose Quartz in it. So it's also for love for ourselves love but also love to others, the green chords, Heart Chakra again to not lose yourself, but on the other hand, you have ocean Jesper, which is also helps with grounding. So, that makes sense why these crystals in the setting or in the sets that we made on the Zodiac sets,

Jev:

I totally love it. Especially when you said grounding because as I mentioned, we brought can be avoiding conflict at all costs, right? And on one hand, of course, we can think of course who wouldn't right. But on the other hand, the healthy and deep relationships cannot be developed on the surface, it needs depth and needs maturity and maturity and depth does not come if we are trying to sweep you know, uncomfortable themes and conversations under the rug, sometimes we need to put it in the spotlight so that we could talk about it and we can come to a certain other conclusion or or you know, to meet each other halfway. And so grounding is really really important at this time so that the person who feels you know fear of rocking the boat or fear of bringing this topic to another person could first ground oneself stand in one's own truth and courage and to actually bring the uncomfortable conversation to the table.

Laura Konst:

Wow, that makes it yeah, it makes so much sense I think we've also have not I think I do know we also have strawberry chords in the set as well and actually strawberry causes getting a bit more rare because there's not many mines I think some mines that you can stop mining because it's finished, but it's a perfect Root Chakra crystal. So in even though it's it's, it's a beautiful, red pinkish, it depends on which mine it comes from. It helps to strengthen our foundation, like our bodies Foundation, our mind foundation and our spiritual foundation. So that will be perfect crystal to carry As well this month

Jev:

100% It's so beautiful because I'm thinking also about few other shadow sides of Libra and that comes so helpful, so helpful. First of all with Libra energies on unconscious, there can be a lot of romantic idealism idealizing another person idealizing how your love life can, you know unfold, idolizing your partner and so on. So, this grounding is so important during the season, but also for all the people who have a lot of Libra energies. And then another one is that Libra may may have unconscious projections. So what is projection projection is something Yeah, is something that we we tend to project some things to the outside, we are blind to see something can ourselves we might be blind, because we have a lot of blind spots, all of us this is why it is the lifelong task to, to continue working on ourselves to continue getting to know ourselves. And so so some of our shadow sites or some of our blind spots, we tend to project out onto other people, okay, so we might not see it in ourselves, but we can see it in another person. So for example, if a person is very talkative, you know, very talkative, that person might not even notice it in oneself, but he or she will definitely be able to project it out onto others. And when they will meet someone who's very talkative, they will be like, Oh, my God, I cannot talk to this person. Because, you know, they can look you and shut up and that kind and then other people, when they see it from a side, they will be like, wait a minute, the two are the same, you know? Yeah. So it is also It also provides the feedback, it also provides an awareness and grounding in this, in this way is very helpful for a person not to project out but to actually own our shadow sites and our awareness.

Laura Konst:

Okay, that makes a lot of sense. Because projecting, I guess it happens a lot. in society these days, you do see a lot of people have a lot of comments, but other people, but actually, they're talking to themselves without realizing it happens in real life. It happens online. And wow. Okay, that makes that makes a lot of sense. Yeah. So we need a lot of grounding this this season as well. Yeah. Okay. And what happens with the moons this month?

Jev:

Yes. As always, we have two months, we have the new moon and the full moon, the new moon in Libra, we will have it in certain degrees. And that is happening on the sixth of October. Okay, right. And it was interesting. When I was looking at the chart of that new moon, you know, there is the full house in the sign of Libra. Because there is the moon, there is the sun there is Mars and even Mercury Retrograde.

Laura Konst:

Wow, okay, that's gonna be an explosion of something. It's not an explosion. It's more like a party. Okay?

Jev:

When almost all personal planets are coming to Libra, and they're saying, look, this is the new moon, we want to start something new. We want to either start a new relationship, or we want to show up differently in existing relationship.

Laura Konst:

Okay, and what did that mean isn't in a romantic relationship or

Jev:

can be romantic relationships as we were talking, it's one to one relationships in your life, because it is in let's say, it will be in the middle of mercury retrograde. That is that all those processes where you review the quality of your relationships, where you will review how you show up in those relationships, where you review what you accept, what you allow, what you want to create in this relationships, these are the new seeds, these are the new intentions, this is the possibility to say okay, all right here I want to choose differently for the next six months and of course for the future as well. All right, okay. And as also in previous moons Jupiter is supporting us a lot because the Jupiter retrograde in Aquarius, it will try Sun Moon and Mars in Libra. So there is a lot of support a lot of growth and expansion in the way where we want to show up differently in the way that we want to change something because you probably have noticed as we all Have the relationships that we have long term, the longer the relationship last, the harder it is to change something. Yes, there we go in certain tracks. And then to change the tracks, it's really hard because there is a dynamic from both both sides, right. And so one person who is more conscious, if something does work on those relationships, if something is bothering than one person should really be kind of strong in terms of mindfully and consciously and very kind with a lot of kindness to start changing it and shifting it. And so Jupiter is supporting all this growth and expansion and change. And Saturn retrograde in Aquarius will also try Sun Moon and Mars in Libra. That is another very good support. Although Saturn is not this, you know, nice, easy, shiny, shiny planet. But it comes with the seriousness, it comes with the maturity, it comes with the responsibility. And it also helps us to build the long term foundations.

Laura Konst:

Okay, so that sort of helps to balance out all the reviews, but just to keep you sort of more in balance, a bit more grounded, I guess.

Jev:

Even correct, it helps also to you know, it helps to make sure that those shifts and changes that we're making in our in our close relationships, they are not short term. It's not that you know, we have a conversation and we are actually sharing really honestly what is not working between us and then you know, the months further we already forgot about it and we came back to the old tracks, no saturn saying Alright, now we will move slowly we will change the tracks, but we will not refer back we will not come back to the old

Laura Konst:

thing. Okay. So that is the maturity that correct brings the planet with it, right?

Jev:

Absolutely. And then also venus in scorpio will square Jupiter retrograde in Aquarius. And that creates a little bit of tension, because venus in scorpio, it wants the passions and wants the depth, it was the emotional underworld and you know, in relationships and so, this square it, it kind of brings also to our surface, the need to I will use the word balance again, because obviously Libra is all about balance. So balancing our own deep internal emotional world, in relationships, so that we could actually exercise emotional detachment when it's needed to be able to look at the situations from a very objective perspective, right? Because Aquarius is is it, it is the energy that has a gift of using and stepping into emotional detachment when it's needed. It's not overly emotional. There can be emotions with them, but it knows when to say Aha, okay, now I will kind of put it aside and objectively take a look at the situation and see what's best for us here. Okay, okay. Beautiful that although although with a little bit of tension, it's still very supportive. Because it it, it basically gives us the possibility to plant new seeds and intentions around equality in relationships, empathy, listening, and also reassessment reconsider how we do relationships, and also revitalize existing relationships.

Laura Konst:

Wow. Okay. So there's actually a lot of work to do that sort of this this month, but it sounds to me like that anyway. It is. It is. I would say that as well. Yeah. A lot of work on relationships, of course. Yeah, I think but it also sort of takes work on yourself. If you're reviewing your relationships, you also need to look in your, towards yourself, like, what can I do better? Or, you know, like you said to showing up differently, and, wow, okay, so, yeah, but also if, yeah, it will,

Jev:

it will be exciting. But also, let's not forget that the new astrological year started back in March, it started with the Aries season, and then we went through Taurus and Gemini and cancer and Leo and then Virgo, then now we're stepping into the area of relationships or the other. So let's say in the past half a year, we were working mostly on ourselves with a lot of changes which are happening in the society in this life, in the way we work and the way we spend time at home and the way we interact with technology, and so on. So it was the whole Preparation period for us to accept the changes which are in us accept the changes which we want to make in our lives, in our routines, and lifestyles and values, and so on. And now with the labor system, we get to bring this changes to into our relationships. So I've changed, and therefore my relationships should change as well change as well. Yes.

Laura Konst:

So that's the balance. Yeah, it always balances out, doesn't it?

Jev:

Yeah. And so now we have the full moon in areas in 27 degrees that is happening, connect tober 20th. Right. And that will be the time when many planets will have already. We already have stations Direct, for example, mercury, and Jupiter, and Saturn and Pluto. So all of those were retrograde at one point. And then by October 20, all these four planets are already direct. So there is direct motion, it's not internal anymore. Because when a planet is, is retrograde, there are a lot of internal changes. It's all about the internal transformation, going deeper into oneself, we assessing various areas in our lives. By October 20, many of those planets are are having the direct movement. So in terms of aspects, there are quite a few, it's a mixed bag, I would say, there are quite a few planets, which are creating tension and creating, you know, some kind of impatience, especially with theories, there can be a lot of impatience, it's a fiery sign, it wants to just launch forward to run and, you know, experience life as it is. But here since it's a full moon, it brings also quite some eliminations and quite some learnings since March when the area season started. So we again, we take a look back and we look at what happened in terms of different themes related to areas which would be the sense of self, who we are now, how did we change in those past six months? How do we experience ourselves and who we are when all other layers are stripped? When it when we take away the job and relationships and family and anything? You know, Friends and social status and so on who we are beneath all those layers will have meaning? That's a very deep question. Actually. It is a deep question. Exactly. And so I can see I will not go through all the aspects because there's a lot there is like there, there is the whole list of a lot of planets are dancing together to to create something here, but I can see two main themes. First of all, there will be a T square between the moon Pluto, sun and Mars in in the cardinal energies and areas Capricorn and Libra. And that for me, it shows that the Pluto will help to purge the old it kind of brings the detox to the axis of Aries Libra, okay, that is the me versus another person. Aries is all about me. Libra is all about another. And so Pluto is helping to purge the old patterns, purge anything that is not serving and bringing back into the balance so that I'm not too much into me and forgetting about other people. I'm ignorant about other people. And I'm also not too much about them and losing oneself. Right. Okay, all right, finding the healthy balance. And then another very supportive aspect of the group of aspects is that Jupiter will be Jupiter in Aquarius trying the sun and Mars in Libra. And it basically it supports supports this new growth and expansion on the same axis by introducing emotional detachment, objectivity, friendship as a basis for relationships, perhaps some unconventional, unconventional kind of unions may or may go forward, right? So we basically kind of expand our our point of reference, it's not anymore our mind that says, Oh, I have to have an ideal partner so that he or she would look quite for my advertisement and it will be you know, ideal. The Instagram posts and pictures. It's not about ideal anymore, really expanding ourselves to become water and to fall in love with the person's soul rather than with how she or he looks. Yeah, it's not the purines anymore, it's going to really deeper, deeper. That's

Laura Konst:

beautiful. That is very beautiful. So it's going to be very deep Do you feel Do you think we're going to feel a lot of push and pull? The pushing in the sense of, you know, the relationships, but then the pooling and inwards towards the soul? Did I describe describe that, right?

Jev:

Absolutely. I'm, I'm surprised that you basically took the essence of the Aries Libra axis because Aries Libra access, it is the push and pull. And it is almost like this. The sea soul. One extreme, another extreme, one extreme, another extreme. I want relationships. I want freedom. I want to be with somebody I want to be alone. It's about me. No, it's about them. So there was a lot of this portion four back and forth. And so the Libra season is really bringing us in to to basically face those questions. How much do I give to others? How much do I give to myself? How much do I catch myself in conditioned mind status of who do I want to have in my life? Or who do I want to date in my life? How, how conditioned am I about how relationships Should I unfold or Muslim fault? So there will be a lot of reconsideration and reassessment of how we build relationships? What is the old traditional approach? And what is the pre approach which will which can bring a lot of satisfaction to to both sides?

Laura Konst:

Wow, very excited. I'm really excited about this. I think I'm ready for it. Definitely.

Jev:

I'm happy to hear because I can see it. So there's the Venus in Sagittarius, it will give a flow of wisdom higher perspective. And this is what we need when we are changing a lot of things in our lives. higher perspective and wisdom is exactly what we need.

Laura Konst:

Yes, definitely. I'm a Sagittarius as well. But yes, and I love Venus. For some reason. I've always been a bit obsessed with Venus. But yes, that is so excited. I'm very excited. I'm ready. I am ready for the season.

Jev:

Yes. What would you command? What else? Do we have anything else from the crystals perspective that you would recommend,

Laura Konst:

I think, focus a lot on the heart. From what I hear from today, like the push and pull as well. So crystal like epi dough will be beautiful. It's a is made. It's a green with a bit of sort of wide in the background, if you say but it has such a strong connection to the heart. And I think that brings a lot of balance. And but I do personally also find it again grounding and feels earthy. Almost, it's like, yeah, I get that fuel from epidote is a very earthy crystal for some reason. And I mean, my ultimate obsession with ocean Jasper is, you know, I'm obsessed with ocean jest. But I think it's one of the most beautiful ones with all its colors. And it doesn't even have one color. It's got 1000s of colors, different shades and feels and some are a bit more there it is sort of organic anyway, but it's some of them are very full kenick and strong and fiery, but some of them more look like an ocean or some of them look like a planet. It's It's so beautiful. But it's also has a beautiful connection to the solar plexus. So is the gut feeling and a little bit of, you know, sort of creativity as well, your solar plexus on talking about and I think that is also a beautiful crystal to have for this month.

Jev:

Sounds like an ideal support.

Laura Konst:

Definitely, definitely. Well, Jeff, again, I think this will be very helpful to a lot of people. It's definitely helpful to me, that you're reading all of this and that we're sort of ready. We know what's to come that we can, you know, make ourselves be mindful of what is to come and I think that would also help with one's mind.

Jev:

Absolutely, especially with the upcoming Mercury Retrograde is out of our mind and back into our heart.

Laura Konst:

Yes. Beautiful, beautiful ending. Thank you so much, Jeff again, and we will see you next month. Thank you, Laura, talk to you. Thank you so much for listening to Tali and Loz. podcast next week to celebrate me lewis is one year old and I'm going to be interviewed by Haley Joe